Seven Secrets to Finding the Perfect Fit
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Diamonds aren't found laying around on the ground -- they have to be mined. Expect to look a little deeper in people to find a precious jewel.
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Instead of searching for someone to make you happy, BE someone who brings happiness with you. Keep asking yourself, "How fun and I to be around?"
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Stop using people to meet your needs. Whether its social, financial, sexual or emotional -- no one likes to be used, and when they figure it out, it always ends very badly.
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Work on the inside as much as the outside. The outside package is what sparks interest, but the inside is what keeps it going.
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Be true to yourself. You don't want the LOVE OF YOUR LIFE to fall in love with the Fake Version of You, would you?
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The reason relationships fail is ALWAYS selfishness. Maybe it's one person, and maybe its both, but its always selfishness. Practice thinking about others more than yourself.
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Never forget the God who knows you, knows what's best FOR you, too. If the Perfect Fit isn't in your life right now, could it be this is a perfect Opportunity for you to learn how to love according to His high standard?