Workshop Outline
A. What are the Facts? The reality your teens are facing
B. The Myth of 98% Protection: What "Safe Sex" really means
C. What Doesn't Work
1. The Sleeping Beauty Method: Cocooning kids so they can't make a mistake
2. Lowering the Bar: Wait until you're ready, 18 or "in love"
3. Data Dumping: Fear only works as long as the fear lasts
D. What Does Work
1. Affirm their value: Substituting your voice in their head
2. Be the Hero: Mommy, were you a virgin when you got married?
3. Accentuate the Positive: The MOST IMPORTANT Skill you need
4. Challenge them: Help them rise to your expectations
E. What to agree on BEFORE you talk to your kids about sex